Monday, March 30, 2009

Waiting For Your Beloved


Waiting for your beloved can really test your patience. Maybe he or she needs more time to get ready. Maybe he or she needs to attend to a more “important” business. You become more and more uneasy as you wait because you are just not sure whether he or she is trying to impress you more or that you are never his or her first love at all.

You walk around the surrounding areas many times until people start to look at you suspiciously. If you are holding a bouquet of flowers, it can get worse when the flowers fade. Your mood begins to get worse as you sit down quietly, bending your body forward, for a long, long while. You most probably will look at your watch many times and hear the ticking of the watch, the pumping of your heart, and your heavy sighing.

But the moment you see your beloved walking slowly towards you from afar, your world begins to feel more full and alive; you are wide-awake and fresh with a tender smile of love. And you run towards him or her with open arms and great joy. And you will be well pleased and all your frustrations will just disappear.

Yeah, All will go well when the desired answers or excuses are given. But the moment misunderstandings happen and words are said that shouldn't be said otherwise, every spark will turn into a fire. And you start to grumble and argue with one another, and you begin to shout and cry. Worse still when your beloved speaks of separation and divorce; you will most probably scream and cry and run away.....

Maybe if we can react in a more patient and forgiving way, our relationship may not crumble so easily. After all, love is always patient and kind...

2 comments:

Twilight Zone said...

very true and very nice post my friend.

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

hi, very nice post... i agree with you..
LOVE is PATIENT...i waited for more than a year before i met my husband personally..now we are together....living a happy life ^_^